Heard a lot about the thin line between love and hate and I stupidly thought it existed only between lovers, not knowing, the love between friend can dwindle from love to hate at an even faster rate.
It's amazing how people can lie to you and still look at your face and smile with you everyday and not expect you to react when you find out.I personally think that is what is meant by betrayal, hypocrisy and God knows what other words I'd find when I look into the dictionary.
It's like people expect you to just tolerate every nonsense they throw your way and not have enough. They expect you to forgive them for every betrayal and pain they cause cos well you are a forgiving machine. I really don't have issues forgiving cos after all, how long can one hold a grudge? However, what irritates me is when they expect things to be the same like you suddenly had amnesia and forgot all about the pain they caused you.
Why does this happen? Is it simply human nature, or perhaps the nature of love? Why do these relationships make us so crazy, turning even the calmest participants into self-contained roller coasters of emotion, causing us to do and say things we neither mean nor understand? If it is simply human nature then how do we live with eachother in this world where friends are turning into enemies on a daily basis???
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Well in such a situation i guess its just human nature to take ones leniency for granted until the last nerve can`t take it..I would just give U the same advice mama gives me.."SLEEP WITH YOUR EYES OPEN" coz people especially friends have an upper hand in the HURT YOUR FEELING GAME..
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@DIDI, sometimes, you"d like to think, you call people friends because they are the ones you can afford to be yourself with but as an old saying goes, it is the insect lodging in your cloth that bites you. Lesson learnt
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