"And if apart you two must be, better by far, u should walk away with a smile than to stay with tears in your eyes"-Her Prettyness
There comes a point where walking away is the best choice, not the easiest, not the calmest, just the best....
A divorce is not meant to be easy, it is meant to remind u for the last time why you chose to get married in the first place. It is meant to be painful and traumatising.... But if leaving means, leaving the abuse, the cheating, the lies...., if leaving means, you and God can agree that you deserve better, then maybe, you should leave.
However, leaving doesn't necessary mean closing the door behind you, sometimes, it is just walking to the front yard, sitting in the garden whilst staring back into your room and remembering why you settled for that in the first place....
Divorce is hard on anyone involved, so is marriage.None should be taken lightly......
But if you really must divorce, try again to make it work, you never know when you'd still find a spark of love in what seems to be dead flames....
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